Ice Chip #39
Thanksgiving is about saying: Thank You!
I would like to share an excerpt from my book: Remember the Ice and Other Paradigm Shifts. In Chapter 4: Respectful Elegance, the focus is on treating others as they would like to be treated.
There is power in the clarity of your articulation TM, and if that clarity is framed considerately, the power increases exponentially. Untying the (k)nots was step one, then you learned to drop disempowering words. Now, let’s take a look at the sentence structure, or context, surrounding those words.
I would like you to begin framing your words in expressions of respectful elegance. Start with “please” and “thank you,” “excuse me,” and the other polite phrases that demonstrate respect. Make sure you’re using them; we lead busy, hectic lives, and it’s common to forget to say these words in the hustle and bustle – even when we intend it in our heads.
Make a conscious effort to bring these words back into every appropriate situation.
For the next 24 hours, say “thank you” instead of “thanks.” You may be surprised by just how often gratitude gets thrown away on that quick shortcut. Some of us do it more than others, but most of us do it to some extent. As often as possible, use “Thank you” as the beginning of a sentence, rather than as the whole sentence: “Thank you for bringing this to my office” instead of just “thank you.”
A very big "Thank You" is in order for a memorable experience I had last week.
I had the extraordinary pleasure of speaking to one of the most dedicated group of educators I have ever encountered. The IDEA (Interior Distance Education of Alaska) family of Contact Teachers, Field Representatives, Special Education Teachers and Administrators held their 2009 In-service in Galena, Alaska this past week, and I was privileged to be their keynote speaker.
It was an honor to be asked to present, participate, and, see the results of a very dynamic program. The parents and children whose lives you impact are indeed blessed. What a rewarding experience!
Tim Cline and Steve Musser; you have an amazing group of dedicated professionals, and I gratefully Thank You for the opportunity to contribute the Remember the Ice message to your team.
So in your daily walk, think about those who give you great gifts, and be sincere in your "Thank You" to them.
By the way, a nice Thank You to our pilots on the charter flight back to Anchorage. We were blessed with some spectacular weather and views of Denali National Park and the crown jewel -- Denali -- in all her splendor. Enjoy the view.
I really love this majestic mountain. Enjoy the views.
What a glorious time of year.
Here is a heartfelt Thank you to all of you who support Remember the Ice.
Empowering regards,
Bob
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